Another storm

Last Sunday morning, we went to pick our 'Empress' for breakfast. Alas, once she sitted in only, she started rattling, cursing, scolding..... his son! Just because my bro-in-law can't go to her place for lunch that day!!! Instead of asking him what's the reason he couldn't make it , she assume, or should i say, instinctively decided that it was due to hubby hurting E-sean the last Sunday..... GOSH! Helooooo, that was exactly 1 week ago! hubby was playing with E-sean and my naughty one go and bite on E-sean's hand. He cried over it but was okay after that. The following day, we had lunch and do a bit of shopping with Bro & Sis-in-law. Bro did tell hubby off, that he shouldn't bite him because they have taught him not to bite and fight. So.... just that, we were alright.

She sitted in the car only, started saying things like : "bro is not coming, because of the incident. They r angry that's why not coming to over for lunch. Y u must do that? Hit this hit that........ hit me, you'll also hit your bro and sis-in-law. everyone else..... " so much of the nonsense and rubbish until we alight at the market. Hubby always like that, dun wanna clarify and talk to her. I really feel like throwing her out of the car. He will only shout back to her: "Don't you anyhow say. Don't push my limit!" What does that mean? you'r not talking or reasoning to her, u'r threatening her... then the more she'll find you wrong!

I dare not say anything when i'm really heat up and might makes things worse. But otherwise, she will never see the point. I knew there was nothing. I so much wanted to call bro right away in front of her. But did not. I later clarify with him, he was having a bad migraine and took mc to stay at home. The whole afternoon he was asleep. Gosh! what kind of mother they have? Why can't she show some concern? Even if the brothers were really quarelling over something, as a mum, you have to bring them back, erase the whatever misunderstanding, to hold the family together. In our case is different, it was always her who caused everyone to quarrel and squibble. Her extremely bad temper is always causing the 2 sons to avoid her.

It was really after a very long time when sis-in-law started joining us and seeing each other a weekly affair over visiting, activities and meals. This was after i married into the family and she has someone to talk to. Their relationship turned better especially after E-sean was born. The family really have no other problems, except her. On and off, once in a few weeks, she'll kick up something, accusing someone, scolding somebody, cursing some down-on-the luck. And i tell u, she is REALLY REALLY REALLY FEROCIOUS and can be vulgar when she open her mouth...... try it. I bet u, all my life i've not met someone like this.... my life... a drama!

To add on something i would applause for her: she actually wanted to arrange a small celebration for E-then's 4th month. Inviting some relatives who did not attend the baby shower. She even called my mum in JB. In the end, no one wants to come.... & my mum, she thought it's her birthday..... Ha ha ha... serves her right! We also beg not to be invited! Who knows wat is her temper that day? (haiz... though we're not right to say such... but but but.... till u taste it, tell me what you'll feel)